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Friday, June 04, 2010
is ignorance bliss? 2:37 PM

When people make decisions for me, regarding me or about me,
without even involving me,
are they assuming they know me better than me?

If not,
why don't they just leave the decision making to me?

And I am not talking about utter isolation where people can NEVER ever tell me what to do, after all, I am certainly not going to make the best decision all the time or even most of the time.

Some people may never get it (I know of at least one who probably never will), but just like how my way is never going to always be the best or the right way, neither is any single person's way going to be.

Inaction or failure to communicate for the sake of avoiding conflicts or simply because "I (and only I) think it is for the best" is rarely ever the best option.

Even when I disagree with you, it does not mean I did not listen or did not care.

Ignorance is rarely bliss because it is too hard to be ignorant to the extent where happiness can be reached.

Or maybe, just maybe, the decisions made "for" me, were only ever just a facade.

Note to self: refrain from doing this to others.